failure: dysfunction of thoughts

    

failure: dysfunction of thoughts

 

We have control of our minute, Our hour, Our day, Our week, Our month and our year. Stop running around being on the receiving end of whatever people want to dump on you. You showed up you accepted that invite you invited these people to your house & life, You’re in a relationship with that man, You’re in a relationship with that woman. That's you; so how do you feel at the end of your night?

How easy and how convenient is it for us to blame everything and everybody for the things that we have gone on in our lives. There is such thing as you being a positive and great person with the best of intention toward everybody and everything; is rough, and you just can’t get break, but most of you are waking up every day looking for pain, dysfunction drama unemployment, being broke, struggling, dropping every excuse in the book about your childhood and the problems and dysfunction that you grew up in that’s stopping you from being successful.

You don’t like your friends so why are you still with them?

You don’t trust your managers', agents and lawyers so why are they still there?

Do you really expect your life and career to be any different from messing with the same thing people and situations.????

That’s all I am saying.

Are the things that you are doing the people that you are hanging out with and the places and the circles that you‘re traveling in, Does that reflect a person that actually loves himself? If you love yourself why would you waste your time with those type of people?

You might know what they’re saying about you behind your back you know they’re jealous and envious of who you are and the things that you got going on in your life, in your career. You might know that they don’t like you and they’ve made it clear they’ve sent you every sign imaginable that they could possibly send you and because you’re so desperate to have people around you and in your life you continue to go back; you continue to show up to everything they invite you to know what they’re saying about you.

I’m not preaching separatism. I don’t want a bunch of people to just be alone at home doing nothing with no friends no family and nothing to do I’m saying that at this point you’re old enough and mature enough to understand the difference in good people and bad people; and when you’re hanging out with negative dark and dysfunctional people you cannot expect yourself to go to sleep at night and rest. You cannot expect yourself to feel good about your day when you’re including negative and dysfunctional people in your day.

Stop being a lazy person that’s full of excuses, sitting around on the pity party coming up with every excuse in the world as to why ain’t winning.

You are the reason you’re not winning you keep messing with negative evil and dysfunctional people and expecting positive results.

It’s the time you to get off the pity party stop complaining about being out of shape when you never go to the gym; stop looking at your stomach when you get out of your shower, and your body, and complaining about the way you look when you’re eating everything in sight and never going to the gym.

You are the reason you look the way you look, You’re the reason you’re unemployed, you’re the reason why your surroundings are so dysfunctional and negative. You could still be in the hood, broke and living a peaceful life. It’s a choice.

We are being raised in a generation of people that come up with every excuse in the book as to why they are not winning. You have that as a choice. You actually do. You don’t wake up in the morning and negativity, dysfunction, problem and issues just randomly pop up. These are the people that you have decided to include in your life so the outcome of your day, your hour, your minutes, your week your month and your year is always draining, always dysfunctional and always crazy because these are the type of people you've decided to include in to your day to day life. You got 24 hours in a day.

When you go to sleep at night how are you gonna feel about your day, all depends on who you decider to include in your day.

Stop running around acting as if you don’t have a choice, you do have a choice.

Excuses sound best to the people that are making them up.

You got every excuse in the world. THAT’S WHY YOU AIN’T MOVING, THAT’S WHY AIN’T NOTHING CHANGE & NOTHING WILL CHANGE because you have convinced yourself; that everything is wrong, everything is negative and nothing will change and guess what? It won’t change.

Change your mind and it will change your life. Change, if nothing around you changes, change the things that are around you.

If you have thought your way in negativity and misery, you have thought your way into holding to a dude or a girl you broke up with a year or two ago and you’re still sad and miserable and they’ve moved on with their life. How would you be happy? How would be successful?

Listen to me, What I say it’s all in the mind change your mind and change your life you just have to wake up, you just have to break that negative spirit. You have to break through all that shit you care of. I don’t want to or should I say I don’t feel sorry for you, you feel sorry for yourself that’s the problem. Even when positive people are trying to give this good energy, you have tricked your mind to turn every positive thing that's they say into something into negative, every time they say anything to try and motive you and inspire you; every positive thought and intention they do to boost your spirits up, You flip it, shake it, manipulate it cause you are so determined to be negative and miserable, It is unbelievable but you do.

So what you grow up with them? So why they’re childhood friends? So what they’re family? We have a responsibility to walk in the direction of peace.

I want to laugh. I want to smile. I want to enjoy myself. I actually want to feel good about the people who are around me. Because you’re inviting me doesn’t mean I want to show up because you’re calling me doesn’t mean I’m going to call you back because you want me to be there doesn’t mean that I want to be there because we’re family because we’re friends because we grew up together doesn’t mean that I want to be a part of any and everything that you want me to be a part of. Why? Because my experience with you hasn’t necessarily made me feel good about you, So no matter what happens I will take all the steps to make possibilities for my inner peace. This kind of spirit we must have in yourself in order to make your life happy.

You go to sleep at night doesn’t mean you’re resting. You close your eye at night and you are asleep physically doesn’t mean that you’re actually resting and the reason that you don’t rest is that while you’re awake everything and everybody that's in and around your life so full of issue problem insecurities dysfunction negativity; your mind and your spirit is in turmoil. Issues, problem, arguments, yelling, screams, dysfunction of many more; but I want you to stop playing victim you are not the victim, You decided that those are your friends you decided that you are your friends, you decided that those are the people that you want to spend time with, you decided this is what you wanted to do with your day. When you get invited to place doesn’t mean you have to show up.

No one wants to be alone why spend the rest of your life being miserable frustrated and insecure? Not really feeling good as you have a responsibility to feel. Feeling good isn’t just an opportunity feeling good is a responsibility that we all have for ourselves and guess what I actually don’t care what you say about me. I don’t remember the last time I lost sleep over a hater and the things that people are running around and saying on blogs, websites conversations, on tweets, on Instagram, on Facebook and I DON’T LOSE SLEEP OVER HATES. Why? Because I know exactly how I feel about me and even if something appears to be very different than what it really is I don’t even mind that you’re talking shit about the things that you’re assuming that’s really going on!!

In short, I wanna say every day is a new day how happened yesterday don’t let it define yours today.

And LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF MOST.